Big IF. Everything that comes out of this persons mouth is a fallacy catered to their delusion of grandeur, you pop that bubble with reality, all that is then left is to control how everybody else sees you. They know they can't control you, so they control the narrative of you.
In no way does this malignant individual want you to have a fulfilling life so they have made it their personal goal to devastate every aspect of it for even trying.
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